Check willingness to heal first! How effective will my client’s session be? Estimate the success of your next session
Surprisingly, the effectiveness of any client session can be estimated with some accuracy at the start of the session.
This has to be done right at the start, as soon as a client announces what issue they wish to work on.
What the conscious self wishes to work on is the “target” of the session.
I encourage clients to compose a “shopping list” of issues they wish to clear up. This is what I do when I have 1:1 sessions with my coach in medical Intuition. When clients have a shopping list, the conscious self has many “targets.”
Is the inner child aligned with the conscious self?
That I, the conscious self, wants to heal loneliness, poverty or illness is good; but, what about the inner child, your basic self, your immune system? Is it aligned with that target–or not?
If you do not know about the inner child, see my other writings at IseeInto.net > Articles > The nature of Human nature: Your three selves; or, Google “inner child.”
Very often the conscious and basic self are NOT in alignment on the same goals for healing. More commonly the two selves are in PARTIAL agreement on the target issue.
The degree of alignment the two selves have on the target to heal is easy to measure on a scale of 1-10 because the inner child can count to ten.
Alignment needs to be 7/10 or higher in the basic self for the session to create significant positive movement.
I like to see willingness to heal int he basic self at 8/10 or higher. Then movement in the session is easy to get; the client “feels something is happening!”
So if they have a shopping list of issues, I go down the list and learn which issue they have the highest willingness to heal on. This becomes the best place to start. usually this is also a good doorway into all the other issues they have on their shopping list.
How to test willingness to heal
How to test? Simple. You need permission to muscle test or surrogate test your client. If this is a phone session, you will be doing surrogate testing. Don’t know how? Then you are t the stage of more practice with muscle testing and self-testing. You might like the book Self-healing 101! Awakening the Inner Healer on this. It has eight simple exercises to get you into self-testing the EASY way.
Example
If the conscious self has just told you, “I want to quit smoking,” that’s a clear target. It’s wise to slow down and first test and check how the inner child of the client feels about giving up smoking. The inner child can count to ten so you can measure its willingness to change the smoking habit on a scale of ten. I find a willingness to heal in the inner child needs to be 7 or higher for the session to produce results the client feels as “real.” If the basic self is not aligned with healing or changing the unwanted habit, if the willingness to heal is 6/10 or lower, the session can easily be sabotaged by this lack of alignment on the target, in the client.
Stephen Colbert models OUT of alignment
Need an example of what it looks like when the conscious self and basic self are out of alignment? This is where much of the humor of Steven Colbert on the Colbert Report comes from. On his first show, Colbert is surrounded with large stage props with his name in big letters. The big letters throw a shadow of his name on the curtain behind him. His name is on three sides of his desk. Finally his desk, from above, is in the shape of a letter “C.” Colbert points to all these and then turns to the audience and says, But this show is not about me–it’s about you.” This sense of not-matching, of mismatch, is the source of much humor and often used to deflate big egos who are out of touch with themselves, with their basic self.
The degree of change achieved as perceived by clients, appears to have 90% to do with the client’s willingness to heal, not to the skill of the practitioner. I measure every client’s willingness to heal their issue as a preliminary intake question.
Always make sure the conscious self an basic self are in agreement on the goal the client announces. The greater a client’s willingness to heal, the easier the healing and the more dramatic results are likely to be.
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Originally posted 2008-12-17 17:28:43.
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